I was surfing on instagram a few months ago, watch people's stories, and this "influencer" wanted to host a discussion about women needing to submit to a men more. She posed the question of how we felt about the idea of being submissive to a man. Truthfully, I answered that I get nauseous, and this isn't even about men, I don't like the idea of submitting to anyone. She then replied back, I can't really remember all of what she said, but what I do remember is that her response was bullshit and of course the words "what do you bring to the table?" were mentioned. First of all, anyone that utters that question is a red flag to me, second, the people that bring it up in this discussion don't even realize that it's not supportive of the topic at hand. We're talking about relationships, correct? That is a partnership. Knowing the meaning of any variation of the word submission, affirms why I feel nauseous. It's honestly heartbreaking to actually see women feel like they need to minimize their worth and yield their power to please a man's ego in order to be in a relationship, that I highly doubt is even healthy. It sounds like a breeding ground for codependency and emotional/financial abuse. I know that the "table" is metaphorical, but I seriously want to throw that bitch out the window whenever I hear people mention it because you cannot be serious, su
